Accepting help..

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Posted April 14th, 2009 by Gregory

Yesterday (Monday 13th) was not a good day for myself, and many others
where I work. The second I walked into work, I was informed that I
needed to watch a short movie before going out on to the dock to work.
These short movies are always from the president of the company about
how the company as a whole is doing, etc, etc. Well he went
on and on about how they have tried to save money by consolidating
here, and there, cutting routes here and there, and even lowering costs
to the customers. This was just not enough to keep the company moving
in the right direction. The end of his speech he informs us
that effective that day, that all employees, salary, hourly, mgmt, etc.
will be taking a 5 % wage cut. No warning at all. This is
huge for me. Not that I make a large amount of money, but I like many
budget for just about every dollar that comes in. After
hearing this news, I immediately started thinking about where I needed
to cut my spending to make for this loss in income. Like many the first
thing to go is the gym. Now a little background for those that do not know me. I
originally started really going to the gym and training because of my
little brother. I have a younger brother that is much bigger then
myself. He has worked out for a long time. Every time I would go back
home, he would always give a little finger poke to my chest area, and
ask when I was going to start working out. So being sick of that finger
poke, I began to workout. Hired a trainer, and started seeing the
results that I was looking forward to. This trainer took be to a couple
local bodybuilding shows, and then I went to a couple on my own, and
the bug had bit me. I want to get up on that stage. Just once, to see
what kind of shape I can be in. Even if I get last place, I know I
achieved something by just getting up there. So anyway, I
called the gym, and told them about my dilemma and that I just could
not afford to continue on with the high rates (350/month w/trainer). I
received an e-mail a few minutes ago from the owner of the gym, that I
should not worry about the money and they I should keep coming to the
gym, because they have a show to get me ready for. When I read that, I
had mixed emotions. 1. Wow, I can still continue to train with the trainers, and this show may still be a reality. 2.
I can't keep going in and train for free, everyone else has to pay, and
I am no different, and if anyone finds out I am training for free. As
I type this, I am going to accept the help from the gym, and do what I
can do to get myself ready for this show, and while I am doing it, I am
going to do my best to motivate others while I am there to better
themselves as well. I am learning a little something here. By
accepting the help of others I am actually helping others. By turning
down the help of others you can actually offend them. I guess it goes
back to the saying, "Pay it forward". Have a great day everyone..

Witout Warning

On April 16th, 2009 george says:

While reading your blog my mind becomes reflective on how fast life happen and somtimes without warning, before you know it WHAM ! the phone rings, a letter comes in th mail or something happens to us that involves an unexpected bill.
You know Gregory  I have heard this pharse since I was a kid, "When you have your health you have just about everything "
Do you remember last year whem Mo asked us to post everything we are thankful for ?
If you do a recap I sure it will inspire you. You still have your job, and your employer did not cut your health insurance. People are willing to help you and train you. While reading this keep in mind everything has a beginning a middle and an end, you maybe @ the very start of this problem but keep you choices in prespective and continue to surround yourself with good people.
 Finally remember we here @ TEAM MO are behind you and Mo has so many great post,s and info to help you with your training
Best wishes to you